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Your Dog Knows When You’re Miserable at Work: Why It’s Time to Listen

April 16, 20255 min read

“My dog looks at me differently when I come home from work—like she knows I’m not okay.”

If this feels true for you, you’re not imagining it.
Our dogs are more tuned in to our emotions than we often give them credit for—and they
know when we’re not living a life that lights us up.

They see it in our eyes when we come through the door drained and depleted.
They feel it in our energy when we sigh for the hundredth time that day.
They notice when we snap more easily or don’t laugh as often.
They wait patiently by the window, wondering why we have to leave at all.

If you’ve ever whispered, “I just want to be home with my dog,” this post is for you.

Your Dog Is an Emotional Barometer

Dogs are emotional sponges. They may not understand the details of your 9–5 or why you're glued to your laptop at all hours, but they absolutely sense the weight you're carrying.

  • When you're anxious, your dog mirrors your restlessness.

  • When you're burned out, your dog often becomes withdrawn or clingy.

  • When you're emotionally checked out, your dog might act out—trying to get your attention in the only ways they know how.

They read your tone, your body language, and most of all—your energy.

If you’ve been miserable at work, chances are, your dog already knows.

And they miss the version of you that’s playful, present, and peaceful.

Dogs Crave Connection—And So Do You

When you leave for work every day and come back totally wiped, you're not the only one who feels the loss.

Your dog doesn’t just miss your presence.
They miss your
joy. Your attention. Your connection.

And here’s the truth: you miss it too.

So many women in corporate jobs feel disconnected not only from their dogs but from themselves. They’ve spent years climbing ladders they didn’t even want to be on, checking boxes that don’t matter, and living for weekends that pass too quickly.

That disconnection?
Your dog can feel it. And deep down, you do too.

When You’re Unhappy, Your Dog’s World Shrinks Too

Most dogs adapt to our routines—but adaptation doesn’t mean thriving.
When we’re constantly working, commuting, or mentally checked out, our dogs often live small, repetitive lives.

Think about it:

  • Same walk route (if there’s time)

  • Long hours alone

  • Little enrichment or novelty

  • Decreased play, training, or bonding

They’re incredibly forgiving and loyal—but they’re also longing for more.

And you know what’s wild?

You already have the power to give them more—by giving yourself more.

The Life You Want Is Not a Fantasy

I know what you might be thinking:
“This sounds great, but I can’t just quit my job. I have bills. I have responsibilities.”

Yes. Of course.
This isn’t about reckless leaps—it’s about
intentional change.

But you can absolutely start small:

  • Explore side hustle ideas that align with your love for dogs

  • Create a plan to shift into part-time or freelance work

  • Learn how other women have built passion-based businesses from home

  • Start building now, while you're still employed

This isn't about instant freedom—it's about building toward a life that feels good… for both of you.

Your Dog Might Be Leading You Home

What if your dog’s longing for more time with you is the exact nudge your soul needed?

What if their ability to live fully in the moment is your greatest inspiration?

What if your next chapter is less about “career progression” and more about life alignment?

Your dog doesn’t want you to burn out for another promotion.
They want you—
happy, healthy, and present.
They want long walks, playful mornings, and cozy afternoons where you’re not counting down to Monday.

They want you to feel the same joy you give to them.

It’s Okay to Want More

There’s nothing wrong with wanting a life that feels better.
A life where you:

  • Work from home

  • Set your own schedule

  • Create something meaningful

  • Spend more time with your dog

Wanting that doesn’t make you selfish or unrealistic.
It makes you
brave.
It makes you someone who is choosing connection over convention.

And your dog?
They’re ready when you are.

Your Exit Plan Starts Here

If your heart is whispering (or shouting), “I want to be home with my dog,” don’t ignore it. That whisper is wisdom.

You don’t need to map out the whole journey today.

But you can take the first step: 👉 Download the free guide: 7 Business Ideas for Dog-Loving Women Who Want to Ditch the 9–5
It’s packed with soul-aligned ways to start working from home, doing what you love—with your dog curled up beside you.

You’re Not Alone

You’re not the only woman who feels stuck in a job that doesn’t light her up.

That’s why I created a free, cozy space just for us:
Join the Facebook Group: I’d Rather Be Home With My Dog

It’s a community of women building freedom-based businesses that align with their values, passions, and deep love for their dogs.

We’re cheering each other on as we create more joy, presence, and purpose in our lives.

Because your dog already sees the best in you.
Now it’s time
you start seeing it too.

Ready To Take The First Step?

Download the free guide and come join the community of dog-loving women building their dream lives—on their own terms.

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